Who we are

AseeksB is a free personal ads and dating app for iOS and Android, built for people who want to describe what they are looking for in their own words instead of swiping on photos. It supports casual dating, open relationships, kink-friendly connections, and alternative dating use cases — including 90 searchable kink-related role tags and 22 gender identities. Users can post up to 7 active ads at once, control who sees each post and who can send a message, and report users even after being unmatched. There are all key features free to use, with no paywalls on core functionality. AseeksB is available worldwide on iPhone and Android.

AseeksB is a modern kink-friendly personal ads app

Our idea was simple

Take everything we liked about old personal ads sites
and
everything we liked about the dating apps that came after

remove
everything we didn't like about either

And create a modern personal ads app that was
the best of both worlds

Whether you're looking for casual dating, open dating, or an alternative to swipe-based apps — AseeksB lets you say what you're looking for in your own words

Available worldwide — post from anywhere, search locally

Learn more about our many posts and messages features below!

AseeksB app interface showing personal ads

How it Works

AseeksB app - set whose posts you will see

Set whose posts you'll see

AseeksB app - set who will see your post

Set who'll see your post

Post up to seven posts at once

AseeksB app - post up to seven posts at once

Tap on your post to see it

AseeksB app - tap on your post to see it

Let them know you have pics

They can tap on your post to see them

Let them know you want pics

AseeksB app - let them know you want pics

They’ll have to attach some to message you

Photo attachment requirement in AseeksB app

AseeksB app - photo attachment required to message

Texting’s enabled only after a reply

AseeksB app - texting enabled only after a reply

Contact Us

contact@aseeksb.com

Transparency

Some sites and apps try to hide their users. Some even ask you to “buy a ticket” before they even let you see who's nearby – we don’t do that here – our key features are free, and we show you how many posts meet your search criteria.

Accountability

We’re serious about your safety, privacy, and time. At AseeksB we make it incredibly easy to report profiles, posts, or messages that don’t meet our guidelines. You can report message threads even after they’ve been unmatched. This means no more posts saying one thing, and private messages asking for something else. Reported posts get removed from all users’ Bulletin Boards, so your actions help others too.

What people are saying

“

Finally an app where I can actually say what I’m looking for instead of hoping someone guesses from a photo. I got a real response within a day of posting.

App Store review — New York

“

The control over who can message me was the thing that made me feel safe enough to post at all. I required a photo and a real message — the quality of replies was completely different.

App Store review — Los Angeles

“

I have three different posts up right now for three completely different things I’m looking for. No other app lets you do that. It’s the most honest I’ve ever been on a dating platform.

Google Play review — Chicago

Features

Searching and Messaging Features

Kink-friendly: You can choose to hide, include, or only see, kink-friendly posts
Kink-Related Roles: You can search for up to 90 kink-related roles
Couples' Posts: You can choose to hide, include, or only see, couples' posts
Search Criteria: You can search by post dating category, by the poster's gender, age, and distance, and you can hide traveling posters
Traveling Mode: You can travel to other locations and search for posts from there
Photos: You can choose to only see posts that have photos attached. And photos must be of the poster. See our Photo Guidelines for more info
Hide posts: If you’re not into a post, hide it. It’ll stay hidden even if the poster renews it
Hide profiles: If you’re not feeling a poster, you can hide all of their posts – no matter what category they’ve been posted to. This also hides all of your posts from them, so they won’t be able to message you either
Be Real: If you believe someone is misrepresenting themselves in order to circumvent your search criteria, report them. Any such attempt will lead to immediate action
Post Content: Posts have a minimum character requirement. And have to meet our Post Guidelines. So no more one-word self-summaries, or profiles that are only advertising social media.

Posting Features

Create Multiple Posts: We understand that people can have more than one way to express themselves. That's why we allow 7 active posts at a time, offer 6 different post categories to choose from, and allow users to tag their post as kink-friendly if they'd like to
Duplicate Posts: You can duplicate your post and edit it so you don't need to completely rewrite every post
Edit Posts: You can edit your post after posting it
Renew Posts: Posts can be renewed every 4 days. Renew yours to hop to the top of the queue
Roles: You can tag your post with up to 5 kink-related roles from the 90 that are available. Users can search for particular kink-related roles
Interests: You can add interests tags to show people what you like
Desires: If you're posting a kink-friendly post you can add your desires to it to show people what you're into
One Initial Message Per Post: Users can’t message you again until you reply. That means thoughtful messages. And no pestering
Audience: Choose who can see your post and who can message you. You can restrict your audience by gender, age, and location, and you can choose whether traveling users can see your post
Be Real: If you believe someone is misrepresenting themselves in order to circumvent your post’s criteria, report them. Any such attempt will lead to immediate action
Traveling Mode: You can travel to other locations and post from them. That having been said, searchers can choose to filter out traveling posts
Conversation: No more one-word, “Hi, Hey, Wyd,” initial messages. Initial messages have minimum character requirements, and they need to meet our Message Guidelines
Photos: There’s no requirement to attach photos to posts, but if a poster does, they have to be of the poster. See our Photo Guidelines for more info. Posters can also require those who message them to attach photos to their initial message

Coming Up

Hide read posts: Read it, not ready to message it, but don’t want to hide it forever? Hide read posts until you’re ready to see them again
Back button: We get it. Mistakes happen. Undo a hide-post and message the poster
Stats & Data

How many views your post gets versus how many replies you receive. The choice to rewrite it is up to you

Your initial message response rate. Maybe it’s time to try another opening
Search & Post Criteria

Only verified users

Height range

Tags: zodiac sign, body type, politics, etc.

Hashtags: #D4s, #s4D, #poly, #asexual, #god, #atheist, etc. (when you want to get reaally specific)
Graphics

Toggle night/day mode

Font and font size for the Bulletin Board
Public events posts, along with updated related search criteria
Hidden posts list and undos
Blocked profiles list and undos

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Frequently Asked Questions

Privacy

We deeply believe in the right to privacy. Especially when it comes to one’s needs and desires. Please see our Privacy Policy and Terms of Service for additional information.