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Available on iOS and Android. All key features free.
AseeksB is a free, kink-friendly personal ads and dating app for iOS and Android. Users post text-first ads describing what they are looking for, and other users respond to those ads — no swiping, no algorithms, no paywalls.
AseeksB is a personal ads platform — the kind that used to exist on Craigslist before the Personals section was shut down in 2018. The idea is simple: you write a post describing who you are and what you are looking for, and people who match that description can respond to you directly.
Unlike swipe-based dating apps, AseeksB puts the text first. There are no profile cards to flip through. There are no algorithmic match scores. You say what you want in your own words, and so does everyone else. That means less guesswork, fewer mismatches, and real conversations with people who actually read what you wrote.
AseeksB is free to use. There are all key features free to use. Every feature is available to every user from the moment they sign up.
AseeksB is built for adults who want to be direct about what they are looking for. The app supports a wide range of relationship types and identities:
AseeksB supports 22 gender identities and is available worldwide on iOS and Android.
Post across multiple categories simultaneously. You can express more than one side of what you're looking for.
Tag your post with up to 5 kink-related roles. Searchers can filter for exactly the roles they're interested in.
Choose who can see your post. Set age ranges, distance limits, and gender preferences before publishing.
Require senders to attach a photo, write a minimum-length message, or both — before they can contact you.
Senders can only send one message until you respond. No inboxes flooded with follow-ups.
Search and post from any city in the world. Visit a city before you arrive, or post for a trip you're planning.
Report a user even after they've unmatched you. Keeps bad actors from escaping accountability.
key features available for free. No feature gates. No tokens. All key features are free to use.
AseeksB sits at the intersection of classified-ad platforms and modern dating apps — borrowing the text-first format from the former and the mobile-native safety features from the latter.
| App / Platform | How AseeksB is different |
|---|---|
| Craigslist Personals & other personals sites | AseeksB has a native iOS and Android app, kink role search, audience controls, and post-unmatch reporting. Craigslist Personals was shut down in 2018. |
| Swipe apps | AseeksB is text-first, not swipe-based. Users write what they want instead of swiping on photos. No algorithms, no matches — just ads and responses. |
| kink social networks | Kink social networks are community platforms, not personal ads apps. AseeksB is a personal ads app. AseeksB has a native mobile app; most kink social networks do not. |
| Orientation-specific apps | AseeksB is orientation-inclusive and supports 22 gender identities. Unlike apps designed for specific communities, AseeksB is text-first rather than photo-grid-first, and welcomes all orientations and relationship structures. |
For a full feature comparison, see the Why AseeksB page.
Some platforms hide how many users are near you, or make you pay before revealing who's available. AseeksB shows you exactly how many posts match your search criteria — for free — before you engage with anyone.
Posts have minimum character requirements so you know what you're reading is real. Social media handles are not allowed in posts, preventing scam funnels. Users can be reported in message threads even after unmatching, so bad actors cannot disappear into the void.
AseeksB supports 22 gender identities, 6 post categories, and 90+ kink role tags. Whatever you're looking for and however you identify, AseeksB is designed to let you express that honestly.
Finally an app where I can actually say what I’m looking for instead of hoping someone guesses from a photo. I got a real, thoughtful response within a day of my first post.
The ability to require a photo and a real message before anyone can contact me changed everything. I’ve never felt this in control on any dating app. The quality of responses is on another level.
I have three completely different posts up at the same time. A casual one, a kink-specific one, each with its own settings. No other app I’ve tried comes close to this flexibility.
As someone who’s been frustrated with swipe apps for years, this is exactly what I was looking for. The text-first format means people actually read what I wrote before responding. That matters.
Available on iOS and Android. All key features free.