Male, female, male; female, female, male
Who is in a threesome: MFM is two men and a woman, and FFM two women and a man.
| Type | Modern shorthand and terms |
|---|---|
| Category | ENM and kink |
| Stands for | Male, female, male; female, female, male |
| Variants | MMF, FMF, and MFMF, for two couples |
The letters list who is involved, much as M4W lists who is writing and to whom. They are common in swinger and ENM posts: on Reddit’s r/Swingers, one couple wrote that SDC is where they find “single guys for all our mfm,” and a member of r/nonmonogamy described looking “for a 3rd for an ongoing mfm dynamic.” In ENM slang, a woman who dates a couple is a unicorn. We have not found a reliable date for these codes.
On AseeksB, couples can mark a post as coupled and choose who can see it by gender and age, and kink-related posts can carry role tags such as Swinger, Stag, Vixen, Hotwife, and Bull.
The roles people use in kink personal ads, and who they pair with: Kink Roles in Personal Ads.
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How this fits into 170 years of personal ad shorthand: From Object Matrimony to LTR: How Personal Ads Learned to Talk in Code.
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