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Modern shorthand and terms

ENM, CNM

Ethical non-monogamy, consensual non-monogamy


Relationships where the people involved agree that they are not exclusive.

TypeModern shorthand and terms
CategoryENM and kink
Stands forEthical non-monogamy, consensual non-monogamy

History

ENM and CNM are umbrella terms for open relationships, polyamory, swinging and other arrangements where everyone involved knows and agrees. We have not found a reliable date for either abbreviation. They are now common in dating profiles, as a short way to say you are open, and honest about it.

Sources: Wikipedia, Non-monogamy.

Today

AseeksB was built for ENM and kink communities, so these words are part of everyday posts there.

Related terms

PolyNRECompersionUnicorn

How to cite this entry

“ENM, CNM.” The Personals Dictionary, AseeksB, 2026, https://www.aseeksb.com/dictionary/enm.html.
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